Most men tend to brag about their penis size or how long they last in bed forgetting that it takes more than that to satisfy a woman. Just because she’s making the loud sex sounds, it does not mean you are hitting her spot. Sadly, most women would rather not say what they are thinking for fear of hurting their partners and instead drop hints intentionally or unintentionally.
Just to be on the safe side, here are 7 signs you should pick up to help determine if you’re doing it right or your bed game is weak.
This obvious sign goes unmissed for some reason. While it’s possible she may be feeling unwell, but if she always has a headache or is tired or too sleepy or simply not in the mood when you want to get naughty, that should be a huge warning something is wrong. Sex is a wonderful thing and when one party passes it off because of ‘sleep’ for example, that could be because they do not enjoy having sex with you and they would rather skip.
- She shows no response
Women express themselves differently. For example, she may give verbal cues or react physically by pushing or touching you in a certain way. If she does not, she is not enjoying herself. Other physical signs to look out for during sex are panting, arched back, curled toes, touching back etc. If she does not and just lies there, you are not turning her on.
- She masturbates more
If she would rather resort to other measures to get an orgasm, it is obvious you are not satisfying her.
- She is not interested in sex anymore
If she seems preoccupied when you’re getting down and her mind seems elsewhere, this is because she would rather be anywhere else than with you having sex. You should get curious and find out what is going on in her life. It could be work stress, exams, the kids or unfinished business with you like an overdue apology or explanation. Important thing is not jump into conclusions.
- She gives directions
If you find her pushing your body a certain way or putting your hands somewhere take the cues. She might even let a few words out like ‘faster,’ or ‘do it like this.’ This should be a sign that you’re not giving her pleasure. Good thing is she is trying to show you how you can improve and help her get there. Don’t take it wrongly. What works for one woman does not necessarily work for everyone. Every woman is different. Get to learn her body and pleasure needs then take it from there.
- She rushes through sex
There is nothing wrong with a quickie once in a while. But when it becomes the norm and you always skip foreplay-a crucial step for women, it should tell you that she just wants you to get your release and go her way. Sex like good food should be savored and enjoyed.
- She doesn’t care about getting an orgasm
Once again, women are different. Some strive for orgasms during sex every time and there are those who just enjoy the sex and connection. This could be because she has never experienced an orgasm or it takes too much ‘work’ and she doesn’t want to take you down that road. Find out what an orgasm means to her and don’t assume she doesn’t like having one. If she used to get one before and doesn’t bother to get one anymore, it is because she thinks you can’t get her there.
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