My pal's boyfriend turned me on by kissing my neck. What Should I do?

Dear Coleen

There’s a guy I like a lot, but his girlfriend is my friend, so when I heard they’d got together I was heartbroken.

Then one day he texted me out of the blue and asked me to come over to his place, saying it was important.

I went over and as soon as I walked through the front door he pushed me up against the wall and kissed my neck.

Of course I was turned on by this and let him do it for a few seconds, but then I pushed him off and said “sorry”.

All he did was look down at the floor and said: “It’s OK”. I thought he was going to cry!

What should I do?

Coleen says

I think you did the right thing pushing him off.

While he’s with your friend nothing can happen between the two of you. If you have strong feelings for him and don’t trust yourself around him, then stay away from him.

And, as a friend, it should worry you that your mate’s boyfriend is making a play for someone else.

He certainly doesn’t come across as a decent, caring person. If he likes you that much, then he’ll do the right thing and end it with your friend first.

Right now he is out of line.

Just be aware, though, that if he does dump your friend and you do decide to go out with him, she may not want to remain friends with you.