5 reasons why length of time you take to date does not matter anymore

The time for dating can count on how you build each other though at times it never counts. You can date for months and maybe for years but still end up separating. Most will not count the number of times they have been with you anymore. But instead, they will focus on who you have been all that time that you knew each other.

A number of reasons may contribute to your lover leaving you, yet you struggled to make it work. It is not only that she was the problem but also YOU. Always make a judgment basing on your downfalls if your lover decides to move on with another person.

Certainly, it must have been that you were the biggest problem who caused that even though most people will still blame those who left them.

Here are some of the reasons why dating period does not matter anymore:

1.       Behaviour

First and foremost, ask yourself, were your behaviours at their best when the two of you still existed? How you respond to situations, how you perform your duties as a man or woman to someone, how you operate within or without your principle and the range of actions and mannerisms that you portray your function ability as a lover matters a lot.

She will leave you definitely because you never showed an improvement to your response to varied situations you two might have encountered. Ladies will want man who out-perform the other men and react better to problems than any other men she know.

Similarly, men will love to be associated with ladies who operate within their principles without constantly tripping.

2.       Character

Character takes the aspect of mature mental reasoning and moral qualities that makes you exceptional among other people. The way you judge people and the ideas that he or she speaks signifies your character.

If you are the type that always points out disadvantages of your partner and ever grouping him or her negatively, trust me you can date for years but he or she will never count you as a future companion for the rest of his or her life.

Never expect your woman to be exactly like the woman of John and vice versa. No. You are the only contributor to developing the character of your partner and let her build yours too. A relationship is like an exam. Sometimes you fail and the next time you pick up and you do the best.

3.       Education and level of intelligence

Schooling is important to each and every member of the society. Starting from the traditional ways of acquiring it to the modern, education opens up the mind of a person. It develops the intelligence of a person to make judgment.

 A number will deal with situations there and then. They will not mind if it is happening in public or care about the condition of the partner.

Some individuals will try to keep up with people of such characters and behaviours; crossing fingers that they will change. But to their surprise, it worsens. It might be five years down the road of dating but yet end up separating.

Learn to be self-aware of your habits, have emotional knowledge, understand your partner and be ready to solve each problem intelligently and diligently without inducing any hurt.

4.       Bigger picture

Do you have a plan for the future of both of you? Are the plans being acted upon step by step? Are both of you included in the plans?

A good relationship has a future where you reason as one. You can date for two months and click perfectly definitely because both of you reason to one direction. You can go out as a couple for years but still end up heartbroken simply because what you want is not what your partner wants. It is like playing tag of war where the rope is being pulled to opposite sides.

5.       Fulfillment

I know of a number of friends who dated for years but ended up in separate ways. Simply because of dissatisfaction and frustrations; they can no longer put up each other. A healthy relationship is where most of your desires are taken care of and that both of you work hand in hand to produce the best.

She might leave you definitely because you never gave her the attention she needed, respect and vice versa. She can know you for few months, know what you want and what are your principles and be satisfied for who she chose fills the gaps of her wants.