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Red lines to never cross when sexting

Relationships

  

 Go slow on the messages!   Photo:Courtesy

Dating has really been revolutionised, with sexting now becoming commonplace, if not expected of couples.

Oh come on, don’t be modest now, and stop pretending you have never sent or received a text with sexual connotations. Sexting can range from heavy flirting to downright R- or X-rated content, depending on how kinky you are.

It is an art that is learned over time and can be a fun form of foreplay or a humiliating experience, subject to your mastery of the do’s and don’ts.

Here’s a list of rules to help you successfully navigate the murky waters of sexting:

1. No uninvited sext  Nothing screams pervert like an unsolicited sext. It doesn’t matter how adventurous your hot new catch is, you can’t send her a suggestive text without coming across a level-three sex offender.

The fun and playfulness may land you in court to answer to charges of sexual harassment.

It is better to play it safe. When in doubt, don’t hit send.

2. Keep off pics The whole point of sexting is to turn each other on with words.

Men just don’t seem to get it though. Send a man a flirty text and bam! He hits you with a picture of an elongated piece of blood-gorged muscles between his legs, usually accompanied by a cheesy line like ‘ready and waiting for you!’

Really? Why on earth would you do that? If the response from the majority of women I have spoken to is anything to go by, the truth is that women don’t think a picture of your boner is a turn on.

To the contrary, she might be left wondering why it is so creased or why you are still in the same boxers you wore the previous day. And just like that, you would have killed the mojo.

3. Crop out the face Ladies, if he asks to see your boobs, it is just your boobs he needs to ogle at.

Your face has no business being in the picture, and I don’t need to tell you where these pictures could end up.

If the relationship turns sour, those nude pictures of you could easily be made public.

 4. Tiptoe over steamy and offensive line You need to know your sextual partner well to determine where her boundaries lie. What you may find irresistibly arousing might be repulsive to her.

To be on the safe side, don’t tell her what you want to do to her. Instead, let her tell you what she wants you to do to her. You can never go wrong with that.

 5. Delete! Delete! Delete! This is the cardinal rule of safe sexting. Always remember that people are nosy and what was meant to be an intimate affair between you and your lover could end up in wrong hands.

That naughty take on your intended execution of some of those bedroom moves is something you don’t want your kids stumbling upon. They will never look at you the same again.

Delete sexts as soon as you read them.

 

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