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Gentlemen, style up! Your bedroom skills are wanting

Between The Sheets
 Men make no effort to learn a thing or two on pleasing a woman in bed

 

Its high time men learnt that women are entitled to orgasms as well. Men should drop the ‘know it all’ attitude in the bedroom and take time to know what arouses women.

 We women are very simple creatures; we are not complicated like most men assume.

Our needs can be summarised into three or so points: pay our bills, listen to us when we talk or at least pretend to listen, compliment us once in a while -- it does not matter is you mean it, the thought is what counts; shower us with gifts and set aside time to take us out on a romantic date. And, listen up gentlemen for this is very important, for heaven sake remember that we women too have needs in the bedroom!

I know this may seem strange for some men, but play time in the bedroom was not only created for man's pleasure, women too have conjugal rights. Oh yes, rights to an orgasm once in a while.

How have you changed in the past two years?

And in order to attain this, we need some romance, foreplay here and there, and a partner who has thorough bedroom skills.

Yet I promise you that if you sat down with different types of women, not many know what an orgasm is, or have even experienced the illusive "O" (orgasm).

About a week ago I was at a bridal party for a friend, and apart from the usual unhelpful advice about cleanliness and being soft spoken, there was a sex guru at hand who laid it down for us women on all the tricks and treats of how to please our men.

And as we sat listening, it hit me like a thunder bolt that on the other side of town my friend's fiancé and his friends were not somewhere being taught how to please their women in the bedroom or how to improve their bedroom skills in order to keep their wives happy, they were probably somewhere hanging out and having some good old fun with 'the boyz'.

Of course, in our culture or society men cannot possibly have a problem when it comes to bedroom matters, because all men are naturally born gurus in all bedroom matters (in case you cannot read the sarcasms dripping from this paragraph, I am being sarcastic)!

Women make an effort to learn a trick or two on how to make their men happy by reading relationships magazines. Unfortunately, men make no effort to learn a thing or two on the same. All they do is to assume that annoying know-it-all attitude in the bedroom.

In fact, for as long as I know, I have never heard of any group of men attempting to include a sex expert or sexologist to prepare them on bedroom matters, and on how to best satisfy their women. If anything, it’s them who really need some of these skills; if at all the number of women who call FM radios to complain about how lousy their men are between the sheets is anything to go by.

I assure you if you sit down and have a nice heart to heart with a most women on this topic, you will get a list as long as Thika Super Highway of how disappointing some men can be. Most men cannot even give a proper kiss to save their lives, and believe things like fore play are fairy-tale. And men still get surprised when their women show lack of interest in the bedroom?

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