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Kenyan men have no clue how to pick a woman at a bar. I have told you that our men are a breed unto themselves. Now, I like you guys. I want you to get laid once in a while without having to shell out some cash.
That said; let me give you a guide on how to successfully pick up a girl in a bar.
1. Patience is key
I understand that times are hard. You want to be in and out of the club with minimal damage to your pocket. However, trying to proposition a woman the moment she walks into the bar will just land you in the emergency room. Most guys don’t even have the decency to ply a girl with alcohol first before getting down to business!
2. Be subtle
Leering grins and perverted come-ons won’t get you anywhere. It’s revolting and an absolute turn-off. Men who seem only interested in sex give women bad vibe. You don’t want to come across as a sex offender. You can flirt without being lewd. Don’t be that desperate, sex-crazed dork. She knows what you are up to. You just have to prove yourself worthy.
3. Pamper her
A little flattery goes a long way. Be charming and shower her with compliments. Even call girls like to be buttered up first. She has to feel comfortable with you before she can consider doing anything naughty with you. Listen to her intently when she talks. Be genuinely interested in knowing a little about her. Most importantly, don’t let your eyes wander on to other girls. Keep your eyes on the prize.
4. A little politeness goes a long way
I’d sooner go home with the laid back guy giving me subtle suggestive looks from across the bar, than the creep trying to grope my ass on the dance floor. Girls are suckers for sophisticated and refined men. Be courteous when you approach her.
5. Be gracious in defeat
Take rejection graciously. Don’t whine and make a fuss. It’s pathetic. I have seen guys ask girls to refund the money they have used on them just because they refused to accompany them to their cribs. Some even get violent. It’s never that serious!
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