6 of the worst first date turn-offs: Things to avoid when meeting someone for the first time

What’s your top dating deal-breaker? Have you been on a few dates? Not working out? Perhaps you’re being too picky? Whether you’re willing to admit it or not, we humans are very judgmental when it comes to love – on everything from looks, to the way people eat and even their teeth. And when it comes to first dates, while we can forgive and forget an awkward silence or sweaty palm, there are some things we just can’t get over. For example, people who constantly check their phones,ask too many questions, and the ultimate no-no - talking about an ex. Here’s our top 6.

1) Talking about the ex First dates are about getting to know each other and finding out if you've got chemistry. Don’t ruin it by obsessing over your ex – it'll sound like you’re not over it – and make you look dull. If you’re asked about your past partner, keep it brief and don't delve into details.

2) Tardiness Its fine to be 'fashionably late' if you're a girl - but a no-no if you're a guy. Be punctual and dress to the occasion - smart casual, if in doubt.

3) Drinking too much This is especially bad if you’re the only one drinking. If you’re both on the wine, pace yourself – it’s easy to drink when you’re nervous, but over-doing it will only lead to self-destruction.

4) Arrogance No one wants a lover that's cocky and pompous. Do you incessantly talk about your amazing job or how many cars you own?

5) Sitting on your phone It’s fine to keep your phone at the dinner table if you're at a family dinner, but texting away on a first date is a definite no.

6) Bad table manners Anything along the lines of talking with your mouth full of food, holding your cutlery like a pencil and causing a scene over the bill is an instant put off and will not get you a second date.

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