It takes an individual to create own happiness

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You will never understand what happiness is until you realize life is not all about competition. Some will go ahead of you; otherwise will come after you. You will overtake some and some will overtake you. Eventually when the time is right, you will get where you are supposed to be.

As much as our life is a competition, human beings need a little happiness. We compete to for a better: lifestyle, business and even in our smartness.  But does a strenuous competition bring peace to your life?

Stress has brought about many complications to human beings. The most affected is the health; not even that business you are tirelessly working to build. This is because we are tirelessly competing to fulfill our desires that we will want other people to see; it can be through what you have achieved. But remember, you can achieve a lot but with a complicated health problems.

Try to find happiness within yourself. Happiness cannot be forced to be felt. If time is given to create happiness within you and share it you immediate surroundings then some health problems will be untold.

Happiness is found through acceptance. Any situation you can be in whether good or bad; embrace it. If happiness is an unused vocabulary in your life, then it’s time to force it to be.

Have you ever wondered why poor people live long? It is because of the little happiness they create within themselves. Finance might be their major problem but as much as they can get even the small meals to share among themselves, that brings happiness to them.

As much as money is a stronghold to most of our earthily problems, try out happiness. Do not insist of the best. Get satisfied with the little you own. It may seem so dismal to you when it is a mountain to someone.

Happiness is when you appreciate yourself. Some people wait to be appreciated most times. This is because they tend to believe it feels much better when appreciated than appreciating yourself.

It does not have any connection to do with egocentrism or pride. No. It is all about peace within you. Once you create happiness you feel the peace. Once you have the happiness it is easy to fade that pain within.

Is your family evading you? Are your friends pinning you down? Is your relationship full of glitches and hitches? Are you having a hard time at your work place? Is money a big problem to you? Well, let that situation not make your face to wrinkle rather find something to do that can make you happy and forget about your difficulties.  

Stop straining. This is your life. You only live once. Be happy.