Rich men have been hitting on my girlfriend, should I be worried?

Rich men have been hitting on my girlfriend, should I be worried?

Dear Coleen

I love my girlfriend so much, but I’m not sure she feels the same way anymore.

She gets lots of wealthy guys approaching her and I’m just on the OK side and I’m not very rich. I’m just a student like she is.

Recently, she’s started acting differently – she doesn’t come over to my room as often as she did and she doesn’t seem as happy in my company either.

I have asked her what the problem is. She said “nothing”, but I know too well things are not the way they should be.

What should I do?

Coleen says

Are things really as bad as that or are you becoming insecure and a bit paranoid?

If you’re constantly asking her what’s up and asking her if she fancies all these guys, maybe she can’t be bothered coming over because she doesn’t want a lecture.

I’m not being harsh – just trying to get you to be honest with yourself and if you could be reading more into it because you’re insecure and lack confidence.

You’re still young to be in a serious relationship, so if it’s not your insecurities that are the problem, then rather than break up with her, why not give her some space?

Don’t pressure her to come over all the time, be a little bit cooler and when she’s with you enjoy it.

When you’re not together, enjoy yourself with your friends. You don’t have to live in each others pockets.