Signs that your man could be cheating on you

Finding out that your partner is cheating on you is one of the most devastating experiences anyone can go through.

It is hard to imagine that someone you have built a life with is busy sharing it with someone else or multiple people like in some situations.

As much as we may want to blame ourselves when someone cheats, it is more to do with their character than circumstances.

Some things could push someone to cheat on their wife or husband, true, but ultimately, the cheater intentionally made the final decision.

If you are the one suspecting that your man might be up to no good, you will go through a phase where you are trying to confirm if it’s actually true.

In case you notice some of these red flags, your gut feelings may be onto something and it may be possible he may be up to no good. Read on:

Some people are okay with giving their partner access to their phones while others feel like you shouldn’t have to do that to prove your loyalty.

Either way, if you have nothing to hide, you won’t act like you have top secret government information in your phone.

If you notice your man doesn’t want you anywhere near his phone when he used to be okay with it or that he starts panicking even when you request to use his phone calculator for a minute, something might be going on.

A man who is emotionally detached from you is likely to pick up the habit of fault-finding. You will start to see that he used to be so sweet, caring and appreciative but now he’s a completely different person.

He will start complaining about everything including the petty issues and that is one big sign that he’s checked out of the relationship.

Sex is something that is meant to signify love and commitment for couples. It also helps you feel more confident when you know that your partner is sexually attracted to you.

When you have been having a healthy sex life and now things in the bedroom have started going quiet, that is not a good sign.

I know there are times when people just get busy with other things or are going through a season where sex isn’t a priority but, if he’s not interested in sex anymore and you are seeing other signs too, he might have found someone else.

Some cheating men will pretend like they want to protect their women by not showing them off but in real sense, they don’t want their ‘extra’ partners to know that they are actually married or in a committed relationship.

They basically won’t want to hang out with you as much because they know they are living a double life. Probably the best way to find out is try to hang out with him in public and if he uses every excuse in the book to avoid you, you are in trouble.

When you have been together for a while, you start to master each other’s routines subconsciously. You know each other’s daily schedules and you probably know who your partner’s friends are.

If you reach a point where you are noticing some gaps in their stories about ‘business trips’ they are taking too often all of a sudden or some new friends they have been having late meetings with, it is time to investigate.