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Other than irregular sex, and kids, what else do men get out of a marriage?
You ask, because, in the last two weeks, Father’s Day and your birthday have passed and Carol didn’t remember to wish you well on both days, much less cut a cake or dispense a gift.
On Valentine’s Day earlier in the year, she was so sour that you had forgotten about the day, she nearly divorced you. You had to dream up a pricey dinner, accompanied by lots of wine and you bought her an expensive dress, shoes and a handbag.
On Women’s Day, you got her a gift, to which she said a curt, “Thank You.”
Then on Mother’s Day, she was at it again. She shamelessly asked in advance, “what will you get me?” and you bought a very expensive oven she has hankered after many a time. She was tremendously grateful.
Not that you care about days, such as Father’s Day or your birthday, but you surely will not mind even a book or a wallet, to remind you that you mean something to someone. You asked your male friends, how frequently they receive a gift from their wives, and nine out of ten, have never received anything, besides a belated text.
Considering most of the wives are working class women, who can afford something thoughtful (read expensive). Women are insensitively selfish.
In a marriage, everything is about them. It is understandable to a degree. The house is theirs, they decide everything from the theme
Then as a man, you take all the bills. You are not allowed to ask her where she takes all her money, as she will embarrass you to silence. A few months ago, you attended a wedding where when it came to
Yet, they can’t buy a man even a simple gift. They are dangerously forgetful, or good at feigning ignorance. For a man, you just lead your
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is slavery.
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