Just insecurities or she’s indeed plotting on him? Five easy ways to tell that your bestie is hitting on your man

Women are known to be jealous when another woman starts being warm towards their man as they have the fear that the lady is trying to steal their man It is not a new phenomenon that your friend will try to steal your man despite presenting herself as an innocent friend, watch out when she starts giving excuses to meet or talk to him

Women are well known for acting jealous and insecure when another woman starts acting friendly with their men. More often than not, the persistent fear that another woman is trying to steal their men is unfounded.

However, once in a while, there comes a woman who is really out to steal your man. You are in a happy and fulfilling relationship when out of the blue, you start noticing a co-worker of his, or a neighbour or a childhood friend starting to get too friendly with him.

She presents herself as an innocent friend but deep down you know she is up to no good. Even if you trust your boyfriend a hundred per cent, you start feeling anxious whenever she is around him.

So, is what you are feeling just normal insecurities or is this woman plotting on your significant other?

Here are signs that another woman is trying to steal your man.

She texts or calls him at odd hours.

This is perhaps the most definite sign that your significant other’s new female buddy has an ulterior motive. There is absolutely no reason why a woman should be calling or texting a partnered man late at night or early in the morning.

It is inappropriate and a huge red flag. An honest man will able to recognise that the calls and texts are inappropriate and nip it in the bud. You should be very worried if your man allows it.

She starts being too friendly with you

I have seen this first hand although in that particular situation, the other woman was already sleeping with the husband. The three of them lived in the same neighborhood.

The other woman befriended the wife and they became quite close. Unknown to the wife, her new bestie had been cozying up with her man for months.

When a suspicious woman starts being buddy-buddy with you, she’s just trying to cover her tracks so you won’t know what she is up to. Also, she could be using you to get close to your man. If she is your friend, you won’t think it’s weird that she keeps showing up at your house.

She is a constant fixture on his social media pages.

With the advent of social media, it has become very easy to connect with people you are interested in. It also helps that online interactions are seen as innocent. After all, it is a public forum.

She is just his Facebook “friend”. She will like all his posts and throw in friendly comments here and there.

She starts coming up with excuses to see him

Once she has established some sort of friendship with both of you, she starts finding excuses to see him and be alone with him. When she has problems with her car, she calls your boyfriend. When something breaks down in her house, he is the first person she thinks of. 

All of a sudden, it seems like your man is the only man she knows who can help her when she is need.

Your instinct is telling you she is after him.

Your gut feeling is rarely wrong. If you are feeling suspicious of a woman and her intentions with your man, even with no tangible evidence, trust your instinct.

If every instinct in your body is telling you she is up to no good, you shouldn’t ignore it.