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6 huge turn offs for guys that ladies don’t know about

Relationships By Wesley Kipng'enoh

When they happen we cannot simply bear with them. By “we”, I mean us men, so don’t get it twisted. Men have been subjected to some quite disturbing behaviors from the women. I hereby present my case that ladies should by all means try to tone down some of the things they do.

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While your man can put up with some of these behaviours, he feels irritated. As it would be, these are some turn offs that ladies should probably know.

1.Long Fingernails

I saw a girl with 3D artificial nails. I mean of all the things, 3D finger nails, really! Did you know hey actually exist! Those nails look like they were borrowed from Lucifer’s personal assistant (no offence though). Keep in mind, super long fingernails are super turn offs.  Men like it natural, because sometimes long nails could be dangerous when a couple is trying to get cozy. So simple and don't over-do the nails!

2.Over doing the Perfume

This is actually irritating. Some ladies overdo it so much you would think they were swimming in a pool of perfume. Smelling good is one thing ladies, but spraying yourself like your life depends on it is not. I would advise that you keep it light ladies

3.Too Desperate

Desperate women..jeez, I still ask myself where this breed of girls came from. You do not have to be desperate to show your deep regard for someone. When a lady does the right thing, men will appreciate it without necessarily being too desperate. Do not cling too much on your guy, it puts them off.

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4.Playing Dumb

Who says this is cute? Never in the history of humanity has playing dumb ever been proved cute. We, humans, have been to the moon, to mention the least. Men always see through such plays, and it bothers them. And by the way, no one wants to have a dumb girlfriend in the 21st century, whether it’s a fake or not.

5.Talking about your Ex

This is a definite turn off, here on earth, in Mars and in every other planet that is yet to be discovered. You don’t bring such tales to threshold of you boyfriend’s hood, Never! Let’s just say if you are still in love with your ex, then it’s not a good idea to have you current guy. Period. I can tell you for free (I won’t mind some dollars though), that men hate this behavior the most.

  1. Gossiping

My friend, Marion has coined gossip as “Catching up”. It’s her way of getting away with gossip. That aside, It doesn’t matter the word, gossip isn’t a good thing. If a man hears you talking badly about some other girl, he’ll question that. No matter how true your points are valid, it will make you look bad and you will score poorly here.

That said, I think I’ll go back to my previous important point. Being yourself is key to everything. It makes stuff simple and easier to handle. It makes you, you!

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