My take on one-night-stands

Sex is no longer a topic that the majority are speaking about in hushed tones and the reality hits you when you hear a 9-year-old or even younger talks about it (most of them actually know what it is). But then again who can blame the children in this era? I dare you to flip through channels on your TV, walk through a magazine stand or even go through some stranger’s phone (if they actually let you, I know I won’t); you are bound to find something alluding to sex. Unless you belong to the fast dying breed of prudes, you have probably heard or even engaged in a one-night stand. Just to have everyone on board, a one-night stand refers to a single sexual encounter between consenting individuals without expectation of a long-term sexual or romantic relationship.

Though it remains frowned upon by a significant section of the society, thus bringing up feelings of guilt and shame (explaining the infamous walk of shame) and, also the awkwardness, it is not always a bad thing. You can actually learn a lot about yourself in these encounters and probably even sustain a healthy relationship afterwards. Without throwing caution out of the window, and by that I mean carry protection and use it and also try to be in charge of your environment for safety reasons, one-night stands could bring forth some exciting benefits.

No Strings Attached

One-night stands come bearing a ‘no strings attached’ tag, and therefore, romantics and emotionally vulnerable people should keep away. However, for the rest of us who have our emotions in check, and are looking to release some sexual tension and maybe even take on a fictitious persona for the night, go for it!

Boosts your Ego

Staying out of a steady relationship might offer the illusion of a happy single life, but all single people will let you know that at some point they need to ensure that they haven’t lost their mojo. A one-night stand usually lets you know that ‘you’ve still got it’ (‘it’ referring to your bedroom game or sex appeal). It also allows you to explore your sexual desires, which go a long way in helping you realize what does it for you as long as sex is concerned.

Amazing Sex

Most one-night stands are a result of various shots at the bar and wild night outs, thereby taking away the awareness of most of your personal insecurities; which allow you to experiment. Again, the realization that you are probably not going to see him/her again allows you to try out those kinky positions you are always reading about, some role playing and at times even allows you to channel your inner acrobat. Often times, you will get an amazing sexual experience and a feeling of freedom from the polite and at times boring sexual encounters that characterize most relationships.

Sexercise

A one-night stand will give you not only a pleasurable time but also a much needed workout.

Sense of Adventure

In a world where vanity gains you popularity among your peers, one-night stands allows you to step out of your comfort zone, channel your sexual beast and gives you an entertaining story to share later in life. (Don’t pretend you don’t talk about your sexual encounters)

So the next time you feel like you want to have a one-night stand, go ahead and have the experience!