Four ways to know he is using you

In relationships, it reaches a point when one starts feeling things are one sided. Once your gut communicates that, it is time to be precautious and don’t ignore the red flag. Your gut could be giving you a hint that he is using you. There are many ways men use women other than sex.

These are the warning signs he is taking advantage you:

Are you always paying for the dates? How often does he borrow money? There is nothing wrong with paying once in a while and lending when things go south for him, for instance, him forgetting his wallet. But once you notice you always pay for everything, there is a problem. This man could be using you and the reason behind it is, he has no money, job or just wants to taste the fruits of your money. Beware!

This is especially for the couples living together. Analyze the relationship and ask yourself if you are satisfying him well but there are some things that you need to ask yourself. Does he help in cleaning, cooking, and any other chores around the house/apartment? If he does not help in anything, he might be using you and end up been his housemaid instead of girlfriend.

This is the guy that is selfish and full of himself. He puts himself first in everything and forgets your existence. He always chooses everything and never takes your point of view into consideration. This evidently show where you stand in his life and simply don’t try to fit in with his plans when he doesn’t care about yours. Respect yourself and do you girl!

He is your boyfriend but high chances are he does not want to be called boyfriend publicly for unwanted reasons. He simply does not want people to know that he is with you. This is because he knows the responsibilities that come in handy and maybe he could be using you as his back-up plan as he searches for his true love. If a man really loves you, he will make sure he plays his role as a boyfriend and ready to show you off to the world!