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Can an extrovert and introvert really make love work?

I love big social events and noisy conversations, but my boyfriend’s just the opposite. He likes being alone and hates small talk. Will he ever loosen up?

By Chris Hart Jun. 2, 2026

Can an extrovert and introvert really make love work?

Can slow-burn romance build stronger relationships?

By Anjellah Owino May. 30, 2026

Should I give the quiet nerd at work a chance?

Mostly, I go for extrovert types, but I’ve noticed that there’s a real computer nerd at work who seems to like me. Might that work? Or should I stick to what I know?

By Chris Hart May. 29, 2026

Why do I keep falling for the same bad boy pattern?

I’d like to date someone dependable and kind, but instead I always seem to end up with one of the bad guys! Why am I so unlucky?

By Chris Hart May. 26, 2026

Why do I keep falling for the same bad boy pattern?

I want my best friend to be my boyfriend, bad idea?

I’ve known my guy best friend for ages; he's always been my rock. But recently, I've started developing feelings for him. Can you actually turn a best friend into a boyfriend?

By Chris Hart May. 21, 2026

I want my best friend to be my boyfriend, bad idea?

There is no single formula for success in marriages

In marriage, if you always win arguments against your spouse, you are actually losing. You should never win a fight against a spouse where they feel small and demeaned

By Kenyatta Otieno May. 15, 2026

There is no single formula for success in marriages

What if I'm making the biggest mistake of my life?

I’m getting married soon and I’m sure he’s the one. But I still can’t stop myself worrying that it’s all a terrible mistake! How can I get over my nerves?

By Chris Hart May. 13, 2026

What if I'm making the biggest mistake of my life?

Why simple questions turn into arguments in relationships

Your spouse asks, “Are we having ugali again?” but it feels like criticism; this is emotional overload, where every interaction is negatively filtered

By Esther Muchene May. 6, 2026

Why simple questions turn into arguments in relationships

Why avoiding 'the fidelity talk' sets couples up for heartbreak

Couples often only begin to discuss the delicate topic of fidelity, or the lack of it, when suspicion starts to creep into the relationship

By Anjellah Owino May. 2, 2026

Why avoiding 'the fidelity talk' sets couples up for heartbreak

Am I overreacting or is my husband too critical?

My husband constantly criticises my cooking, my clothes, my job, everything, when I’m sure they’re actually fine. It makes me feel awful. How can I make him stop?

By Chris Hart May. 2, 2026

Am I overreacting or is my husband too critical?

We don't make love anymore, how do I bring it back?

My husband and I have stopped being intimate. He no longer initiates like he used to and I’m not sure why. How can we fix this?

By Chris Hart Apr. 30, 2026

We don't make love anymore, how do I bring it back?

Is dating someone at work really as risky as everyone says?

I’ve started having feelings for a guy at work and I’m really tempted to start flirting with him. But all my friends tell me that office relationships are a bad idea. Is that true?

By Chris Hart Apr. 25, 2026

Is dating someone at work really as risky as everyone says?

I'm dating an expat who hates everyone, what am I missing?

I’m dating a really nice expat I met at work. He’s very critical of everyone and seems reluctant to socialise with my friends. What can I do to help him?

By Chris Hart Apr. 22, 2026