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Losing a match, especially a UEFA Champions League semi-final, can take a toll not only on the players but also on the die-hard fans.
The ridicule that follows from rival fans is somewhat damaging to the heart and in most cases, fans are left distraught, with some extreme cases leading to suicide.
This also means being in a relationship with an Arsenal fan is sharing in the jubilation of glorious wins and the lows that come with heavy defeats.
Being that sometimes their whole world revolves around the "Gunners", losses can bring about frustration and sadness in your relationship.
Your boyfriend might feel disappointed and could use a shoulder to lean on during these hard times. Step up and become his anchor whenever that happens.
Begin by affirming his feelings. A simple, ‘’Arsenal played well, babe, it wasn't just their day...’’ shows that you understand and care about his emotions.
Express your encouragement and in no way try to downplay the loss.
Don’t say ‘‘It is just a game.’’ This might heighten his frustrations. Instead, offer him a listening ear and avoid over-analysing the match as it worsens the situation.
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Practice patience with him, give him the space he requires and let him know that you are there whenever he needs you.
However, you could lightly banter him, joking about "next season". This could improve his mood.
Arsenal has long been dubbed "Netflix FC" due to their fans' nature of hoping for a better season than the current one. This, due to the team's repeated "bottling" instances on the biggest of stages.
Little acts of kindness can make a big difference. Offer a comforting hug and prepare his favourite meal or order from his favourite take-out spot. Good food can be a great mood lifter, which might also be an opportunity for you to show him that there are many better things to think about than his team's loss.
You can also propose an outdoor activity. Suggest going for a nature walk, playing a game, watching a movie or any other activity that you know he enjoys and can be a better way to divert his mind and aid in uplifting his spirits.
Finally, you can gently remind him that there are more matches to be won in the future. Help him see the bigger picture, as this will not only help him navigate the rollercoaster of emotions but will also strengthen your bond as a couple.
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