Preying on the guy your bestie has a major crush on: How easy?

There is thing that we call a “Girl code/Bro code”, and among all the things it covers, the most significant is that you never go for your girls’ dude, or your guys’ girl, and most times, we try our best not to break this code.

It’s like an invisible line that you all can see, it determines your levels of loyalty to your guys and determines what a horrible friend you are when you break it, and then of course, like with everything these days, we all try to find a loophole simply because that guy is looking extra fine that day, and maybe it’s okay to indulge him, especially if he says all the right things and tells you that him and your friend are no longer together and that it was just a fling.

There’s a few scenarios that could lead you to breaking that sacred code…

For example,

So, this one night, you go out to this little quiet bar and he just happens to be there with his guys, your girl is not with you, it’s just you and what you consider your sexiest little black dress, I mean you have a purpose which is to get a little tipsy but not on your tab, hence the dress and the fly make up and the shoes and the whole get up, you look good and you feel good, and he sees you and offers the seat next to him and buys you a drink.

Now you know he’s your friend’s guy or his ex but he is getting very friendly, still buying you drinks and asking you to dance with him, but before you say yes, you remind him that he’s linked to that friend of yours and that this wouldn’t look right, and he looks you dead in the eye and tells you that he’s done with her and you’re completely taken by him so you tell yourself, just this once, one time won’t hurt anyone right??

There’s where everything just goes wrong…Girl code broken, and guilt phase begins.

Then there’s this scenario, you and your girl aren’t on speaking terms and you feel like you HAVE to do something that will provoke her and anger her, so she knows you mean business and you decide to prey on the guy she has a MAJOR thing for, the one she has been talking about all month. You choose him and play all those dirty little tricks to get him to notice you and go for it.

When all is said and done, you feel satisfied that you have one over your girl…and then the guilt phase begins.

Another is that you’re simply that girl that likes what she sees and just goes for it. And your friend meets this guy who you all like instantly, but you lean back and watch them try while you make a game plan in your mind to trap that sucker….

Truth is, we all are faced with a scenario where you will want to break the girl code, believe me when I say that you will definitely want to break it, and hell, sometimes, we do break it, nothing to be ashamed of, sometimes you simply can’t resist it, it’s just too tempting. That right there makes us human: The battle within yourself whether to do it or not to do it.

And if you do, consider this: Is he worth your friendship? Is he is just another f*** boy? If so he is sooo not worth it, let him go, but be sure to tell your friend he likes bedding women!

If he on the other hand is that Morris Chestnut/Michael Ealy Terrence J Mash up, giiiirrrllll, apologize to your girlfriend in advance and go for that once in a lifetime thing…

After all, you’re only human.