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5 reasons why ladies in relationships cheat

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Individuals in broken relationships always give excuses to why they did what they did. For instance, if a partner is caught cheating on the other. For the case of ladies, they might probably choose to be unfaithful due to some reasons.

A survey was done at a local university where the surveyors collected a number of top reasons to why ladies would “rather cheat” .

Material satisfaction

There is always a need for thirst and competition between ladies in fashion and in newness. This ranges from clothing, hairdressing, modesty among other material requirements of a ‘campus diva’. A number of ladies get into relationship to fulfil their material desires.

They want men who can provide them with whatever they want without compromise. If the current man in her life does not meet a needs-buy her latest weave, shoes and dresses-she will opt for another one who can readily provide all that.

At the same time, a lady will stay in a relationship depending on how she will be treated and handled by the man in her life. Some cheat for a what is described as a ‘genuine’ reason-simply the guy is not what she fancied.

It can be that he allured her with material provision at first before she could give in and afterwards he drops material provision hence need for the lady to look for option B, of which it can be a ‘sponsor’.

Beauty and competition

Beauty can be in the way she talks, dons like, walks like and the general physique for example a pretty face and figure. It can be that the man in her life does not take notice of her beauty better than an admirer somewhere. Ladies love it when they are complemented.

This creates the essence of being wanted. The more you lessen appreciating her beauty while that admirer is increasingly complementing her looks and dressing the more you push her into cheating.

There is a lot of competition between ladies about their guys. They will always gossip and discuss about their men among themselves. Since she wants to be identified to have the most charming, charismatic and handsome man among her ladies, she will, according to one who was interviewed, cheat on her less handsome, loyal and loving guy.

On the other hand, if she is in demand that means competition is high. She has a variety to choose depending on what she wants. If driven by unhealthy desires such as wealth of the man in her life, then she will go with the one that can satisfy her materialistically.

Emotional satisfaction

The primary reason to why people get to relationships is to be satisfied emotionally. The feeling of being wanted, taken care of and all that you will heartily yearn to be fulfilled to you emotionally.

In a case where all emotional requirements are turned down from expected, then it will be easier for them to give in for a guy who will do it.     

Availability

How often are you there for her? Do you listen to her problems and pains? Do you share her happy moments? She will only stay if only you care that she exists. Be available for her when she needs you and explain why you will not avail yourself when she will need your presence too.

If you are too busy and rarely creating time for both of you, she will rather find comfort in another guy who will.   

Over pampering

This simply means giving too much attention to a lady. When this is achieved by men who they are not in a relationship with her, she will take the advantage and move out with the new guy who gives her the attention.

Maybe he is too available to listen to every of your demand. Some men will go to an extent of doing whatever they can with the power of money to keep their women and forget the other simple aspects that make a relationship withstand.

Above all, if she is handled in the manner that is satisfactory, then she can stay put in the relationship. 

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