I have two children and a good wife. I married her but it was because she got pregnant and I did not want to abandon her at her time of need. However, I had another lady who I really loved. This other relationship continued over the years and she now wants to move into town. She says she just wants to be near me and that the relationship is becoming too expensive to maintain as long distance. She is very understanding and says she would not interfere with our marriage. I love her but I am afraid that my wife will find out about this and she will cause a lot of trouble. Please advise me on how I can keep this relationship
What the readers say:
Mark, you cannot fan
Why do you think that lady wants to move into your town and just be close to you? She wants to be close to you so she can demand her share of the man your wife snatched from her. Do not be fooled or taken for a ride, this may cause
Please read between the lines. If you bring this woman closer to you, she will do everything in her capacity to get back with you. She knows that you still have feelings for her and that is the bait she will use.
If you are married to a good wife whom you love and are satisfied with then what else are you looking for? You are tearing apart a marriage you have worked so hard to build. Please concentrate on building your family and forget this other woman. Women will always be selfish when it
Mark, the thing about marriage is that nobody cares why you married. You married a woman, you are now a husband and a father. Period. All those other issues you are raising about marrying because she got pregnant are laughable and cannot hold any water. You made a choice, therefore it does not matter who you loved then and who you love now. You have a family now and these are the people you should
You are a lucky man to have a loving and understanding girlfriend. She understands you are married and wants to move into town just to be close to so she can see you more often. To
Yes, yes, yes. She swears she will never get married to any man and says she doesn’t want children which are very good things to hear from a woman who loves you and wants to move towns to be close to you. However, show me a woman who never wants to get married and who never wants to have children and I will show you a liar. She knows that these are your greatest fears so by telling you such things she is concealing her intentions. In life, you have to learn to listen to what people are telling you but also learn to listen to what they are not telling you. If those are her words, you can pick out several
If you accept for her to move into town, you will lose all your power and influence in this relationship. In addition, she will have you at arm’s length. She will ensure she gets pregnant and
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