How to get him to propose this year

There comes a time in life when a woman feels ready to settle down and start a family. The first step to this is dating the right man, a proposal and marriage. Getting a man to propose after long-term dating is possible. However, the man should be happy and comfortable in the relationship.

Communicate: As a couple in love, communication will help grow the relationship and avoid misunderstanding. Have a talk with the man to know if he see a future together. If not, then it is advisable to find someone with the same plans and values as you.

Have a life: As a lady, it is advisable to have a life outside the relationship. Have separate hobbies, ambitions, friends and avoid being too comfortable with the guy to the point of him being too used to seeing you. Make him miss you and avoid being too available. This tip will help the man realize that you can live without him and can date other people in the event of a breakup, he will in turn want you in his life exclusively.

Be the best: Treat the man how you want to be treated. Avoid being needy or clingy. Be the best girlfriend and friend to your man. This will make him realize that everything he needs in a woman can be found in you. Treat him well and be mature by avoiding tantrums and drama. He needs a woman, not a teenage girl.

Self-Love: This tip will help a woman respect herself to appreciate a good man, to move on from a bad relationship and also to attract positivity in the relationship she is in. Self-love helps in giving and receiving pure love.

Avoid looking desperate:Talking too much about weddings more so lavish and extravagant ones, can easily scare a man. Most men view weddings as an expensive affair so it is advisable to tread very careful on this subject.

Patience:This virtue will help in dealing with this issue, though it is advisable to set a deadline of how long you can wait.

All the best getting the ring this year!!

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