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The psychology behind disappointment

Wellness
 Feeling disappointed is an inevitable part of life [Courtesy, Getty]

Feeling disappointed is an inevitable part of life. Whether it is not getting that promotion you had been chasing, a relationship not working out, or failing to achieve a goal you set for yourself, disappointment can be a difficult thing to deal with.

However, it is important to understand that disappointment is a natural and healthy response to unmet expectations and learning how to cope with it can help us become more resilient in the face of adversity.

But what exactly is it? Disappointment is a complex emotion that can be triggered by a variety of factors.

At its core, disappointment arises when there is a discrepancy between our expectations and reality.

This discrepancy can occur when we set unrealistic expectations for ourselves or when circumstances beyond our control prevent us from achieving our goals. Disappointment can also be compounded by feelings of regret, sadness and frustration.

When we experience disappointment, our brain goes through a series of emotional and physiological responses.

The emotional response may include feelings of sadness, anger and frustration while the physiological response can include changes in heart rate, blood pressure, sweating and breathing.

These responses are part of the body’s natural stress response and can be helpful in the short term but if left unmanaged, can lead to chronic stress and negative health outcomes. Fortunately, several coping strategies can help you deal with disappointment in a healthy way.

One of the first steps in dealing with disappointment is to acknowledge and validate your emotions. It is very okay and normal to feel disappointed. It’s also important to permit yourself to experience these emotions without judgment. If you need a moment to cry or compose yourself, do so without fear.

Practising self-compassion can also help you cope with disappointment. This involves treating yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would treat someone you love who is going through a difficult time.

Be sensitive to your needs at that point and take it easy. Be there for yourself as you reframe your perspective.

Sometimes, disappointment can be an opportunity to learn and grow. Use that to focus on how you can find meaning and purpose in the disappointment.

 

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