My cousin’s husband has a ‘boyfriend’!! Should I tell her?

In love with priest and I'm confused

Hi, a priest fell in love with me long time ago. I have been avoiding him, but of late I have come to like him. He has been seeing me in church and saying hi. We talk alot and I am afraid I feel like I am falling in love with him. I have been trying to avoid him, but he is so tempting. I don't know if I love him or not. I need your help. Please!

Vanessa, Kajiado

Whether you love him or not is neither here nor there. He is a man of God, and the truth is there is no future here. Plus, are you ready to be called the woman who derailed a man of God from priesthood? Again, he cannot marry you, he probably just wants to sleep with you and then dump you. Two options, either change churches. Or every time you go to church ensure you carry your sibling or friend along.

Boyfriend does not want me to have male friends

My boyfriend asked me to delete all my male friends on Facebook and when I asked him why? He said that he saw a lot of likes on my wall picture from men. To be clear the picture had 50 likes and only about ten were men, Please advise?

Prisca, Nairobi

Run for the hills my dear, this man is controlling in kind of way that may get violent in the future!

Do I tell my cousin her hubby has a 'boyfriend'?

I just found out that my cousin's husband of a year dated my gay male colleague when he was in campus. There were rumours about his gay affair years ago, but nobody believed it to be true. However, I do not know if he has been with my colleague since he got married. What do I do? I feel I will be disloyal to my colleague and friend if I share this information. But then again, I also feel that I have an obligation to tell my cousin, please advise?

 Joyce, Nairobi

Of course! This is one of those things a person concerned needs to know. Lay the facts before her, and let her decide if she will stay or leave. Do not take that choice away from her.

Still a virgin at 25 and I'm afraid of relations

I will turn 25 in a few weeks to come. Most women I find attractive presume I have bedroom experience, but the truth is I am still a virgin. This makes me really anxious. In fact, I have turned down potential relationships because I don't want to disappoint them in the bedroom. How do I handle this situations?

Rob, Nairobi

Sex is not rocket science. If animals and those who are not supposed to be having it can figure it out, then I have every confidence that you can, too. Heck, you are over 18 years old. Do not worry, if anything, when you find the right lady everything will fall into place.