You can’t force a relationship, Vera Sidika’s advice to women who ‘trap’ men

By Davis Muli | 4 months ago
Vera Sidika.

Socialite turned business lady Vera Sidika has taken to social media to advise women who intentionally get pregnant in the hope of keeping their partner. But, according to the soon-to-be mother, relationships take more than just a baby to flourish.

Through Instagram stories, Vera advised women to get pregnant when they are ready for it and not when they feel they need to keep their man.

"I don't know who needs to hear this but when a man or a woman doesn't want you, he or she just doesn't want you," she wrote in part.

The former video vixen assured ladies that everything else is possible except a forced relationship, saying it's a sad reality that everyone must embrace when such wind blows their way.


The socialite believes in mutual agreement regarding having a baby and strongly advised that pregnancies should be planned for and deliberately accepted by both parties.

She also clarified that she wasn't faulting women only but calling everyone out.

"I didn't say it's women's fault. No. It is everyone's responsibility. Both Men and Women but women have the power in their hands to prevent it," she clarified.

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