90 day rule? Girl, get over yourself and get laid

It’s funny how we ladies sit together and talk about that other girl because she slept with that guy, that other guy and that other guy and soon after, we leave and go do exactly what she did.

I know this for a fact, I have seen it.

I remember one specific day, my girlfriends and I were hanging out, waiting for one of our own to show up, she was running late as usual, females right!!

So we are there, sipping on our totally non- alcoholic drinks and she rolls up with one of our friends, he waves from the car, and we all knew what just went down. See, he was one of those guys that got out of the car, said hello and hung out for a few, even if he was in a hurry, but that day was different.

So this friend of ours, let's call her Sandy, so Sandy comes out all smiles, sexed up hair, wearing her post coital glow with pride. We could tell she got it good and she knew it was going to be another afternoon of us pestering her for details, when, where, how and sometimes why. We were curious, very curious.

This was our thing, it’s how we bonded. Sandy spilt all the beans, everything, we always shared such stories; to us, this was okay, it is still okay.

Certain people have the nerve to call us out, just because we decided to just do what we want to do because it’s really just us and our bodies. Apparently, this is wrong and has people calling is all sorts of names.,

Forgive my language,

"Slut, whore, Ho, Loose, basic, and my favourite, slut-whore" are some of the words ladies are labeled.

Do not take offence to these words, because people will always be people.

See, we don't go around announcing to everyone that they can just come through and have their way, and we really don't need to wear a scarlet letter simply because we chose to have our cobwebs dusted and curb our sex cravings..

It’s not wrong; it’s what we sometimes decide to do.

Let's be honest, everyone likes to get down and dirty, every now and then, as often as you can for some people, it doesn't give anyone the right to call you out and label you.

I read an article the other day, talking about the 90 day rule versus the girl who just wants to get laid...the 90 day rule doesn't make anyone a saint, neither does calling another girl out for getting laid.

I mean, so what if she sleeps with that guy…Its normal, its natural and it’s just not your business if that girl did that with that guy.

Simply, not your damn business, so my suggestion is,

Girl, get over yourself and get laid.

Period.