Sometimes in a marriage you may expect something but due to some barriers you cannot achieve it.
Sometimes you are forced to swallow the bitter pill and accept things as they are.
Marriage calls for empathy, sacrifice and focus. Identifying another man to father a child with you is not a reasonable solution. First, it is not a guarantee that he will accept your proposal.
The way forward is to focus on your marriage and act sober.
Suppose it was you who wasnÂft able to give him another child for various reasons, how would you feel if you found out that he was considering having a child with another woman?
What you are considering is adulterous and risky. The affair may go unnoticed for some time but a pregnancy will be spotted as soon as it begins to show.
Automatically, your husband will know that he is not responsible for it and he will ask questions. This will definitely ruin your marriage.
The road you want to take has too many risks.
DonÂft forget that you may expose yourself to other sexually transmitted infections if you have unprotected sex with another man.
Seek alternatives
There are many legal and morally justified alternatives for you.
First, you could try artificial insemination, though it is expensive. This is how it works.
