Hi Chris,
I like it when my boyfriend looks good and has an attractive personality. But there are often trade-offs. For example, my best-looking boyfriends are always straying! So, what should I look for in a potential husband? How can I find a hard-working, reliable man?
Looking
Hi Looking!
Every personality type has its pros and cons! An extrovert will be sociable and fun-loving, and will have lots of friends. However, they will also be easily bored and prone to infidelity. Introverts are harder to get to know, but they tend to have more secure marriages.
Highly strung types tend to suffer from anxiety and can be emotionally demanding. They often struggle with relationships and jobs, but they are highly sensitive to others’ emotions and read social situations well. Meanwhile, people who are calm and even-tempered may be too trusting and insensitive to your anxieties and worries.
A highly conscientious husband will be hard-working and well-organised. He will be self-controlled and successful in his career. He will plan for the future and work towards long-term goals.
He’ll be a good citizen and enjoy working with others. He’ll probably live a long and healthy life. However, he could also be a perfectionist who is slow to deal with issues and rigid in his ways.
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A creative husband will be artistic and innovative. He will be highly attractive and interesting and will probably have many sexual conquests. He may also develop strange beliefs and lead an unconventional lifestyle.
An empathic, trusting and kind husband will be a very good friend. He’ll be sensitive to your moods and always try to keep the peace. However, he will be uncomfortable with conflict and you may struggle to resolve issues. Someone who’s more egocentric may seem selfish and unkind, but they’ll be tough and successful in business or their professional life.
So, all personality types have positive and negative aspects. This means that every couple has to find ways to cope with each other’s negative traits.
But at least now you know what to expect!
All the best,
Chris
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