5 Reasons why your lover will play a cheat on you

Some people believe cheating in a relationship is inevitable; someone just cannot avoid it! That might be true for a number of reasons. This comes about as a consequence of the less attention you are given from that someone you have given in to intimately; real and emotional kind of love that shares everything without denial.

Besides, some rush to spill all that they love someone without taking time for a better judgment on their feelings, emotions, character and attraction to the person who they feel for. At the end of the day, deception will set in because of various reasons us illustrated below.

1.            Dissatisfaction and frustrations

People accept to a relationship to find satisfaction and lessen their frustrations. Sharing is a lot more intense and deep when it comes to someone you have truly fallen in love with. You may have a number of friends but not all your secrets you will go about telling to just any friend.

A friend who understands you emotionally will listen to you than just hearing and comparing you with his or her problems and ending up counting his or her problems bigger than yours. That friend who can; not only pity you of your situation and leave you stranded but also shows compassion by helping where he or she can.

View it from a point where you are in love with a lady who cares less about your frustrations. Will you cope with her for long? No. She will just be adding up some more frustrations. More so if she is a ‘gold digger’ continuously asking for material things and digging deeper from your pocket will just add more troubles.

Dissatisfaction and frustrations may be contributed by less attention, spending less time together and too much emotional and mental pressure from your partner hence might end up with the option of cheating.

2.            Poor Communication

Among all the problems the main that lead to a break up in a relationship is poor communication. This associates with understanding each other. It can be contributed by distance where the partners rarely check on the other through calls, texts or rather regular visitations, blame game and introspect when solving a conflict and talking too much and listening less to your companion. 

This adds up to one moving out with another person of less drama when it comes to communication. For instance, a couple has different ways they can communicate. It can be through touch and listen. A healthy relationship where communication of touch is well attended to, then cheating can be avoidable.

It is worth relaxing and breath-taking to have a partner who listens without interruption accompanied with tender touches.

3.            Disrespect and boldness

A healthy relationship stands if respect is instilled. Let the lady do her role and the man his. Interference with the other partner's duties without alert is evading his privacy.   

Most will always try to defend themselves during an argument with ‘I know better’ even before you let the partner defend his or her statements. This is an act of rudeness which adds up to disrespect.

Pride is good but let it have a limit. Avoid too much pride that can piss off or exclude your lover as being of less importance to you or else you will wake up from slumber heartbroken.

4.            Such of support and loyalty

Each and every person who gets into a relationship, at least, will want to be supported in the ideas, actions and thoughts he or she makes.   A good number of people are in a relationship where they rarely get support and loyalty from their partners. But if they gain none, they will tend to spend time fishing out better and supportive partners leaving you in a “he cheated on me’ situation.

Loyalty comes in with devotion to his or her demands so long as you can make it up for him or her. Be true to yourselves and you will make a relationship withstand all challenges that may face it.

Secrets and lies also spice up the tendency to deceive your lover.

5.            You are fake

Some people will rather pretend to be who they really are when dating. But once a serious relationship sets in where the two spend the most time together and interact a lot, they learn the true side of their partners of which they may never like.

A rash into a relationship drives mot people to act perfectly when they are really not. And o nce habits start revealing things start to fall apart. Dissatisfaction, poor communication, disrespect, and disloyalty take control and cheating will be the only option left. 

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