Many wife and non-wife materials will be bothered if a man’s relatives don’t approve of them. Their disapproval will eat them up like a weevil eating maize. The pretentious ones will always pretend that it doesn’t matter. A lie they repeat over and over is that they are with the man and not his relatives.
In case a woman is lost on whether she is an eye candy of a man’s people or she is just plain to them, there are tell signs that will tell it all. It should be a wakeup call to those who are not liked to work on themselves.
1) They visit frequently.
If you are liked, you will be visited frequently. The in-laws and the man’s boys will always feel at home. They will always feel free to eat till they belch and put their feet up. The same cannot be said about girlfriends and wives who are not loved. Relatives will avoid the area as.
2) They shower you with gifts.
The in-laws will never hide their love for a beloved wife or girlfriend. They will shower her with gifts at any given time. The mother in law will never be hostile like the hot desert sun and star shaped thorns. She will remember to give her all the farm crops and her old cock.
3) They never accept other women he may cheat with.
If the in-laws and a man’s boys don’t like his girlfriend, they will feast and make merry when he cheats on her. They will pray to the gods of love and marriage to cause an enormous fight that the couple can’t survive.
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On the other hand if they like her, they will cover themselves in ashes, wear sack clothes and roll on the ground like one thousand times should he cheat. In the unfortunate eventuality that the couple breaks up, they will never get over their beloved in law.
4) They defend you
Even if you did a very serious crime, they will always defend you. You will be too beautiful, kind and loved not to be forgiven. It is for this reason that those who don’t like seeing you and your partner will feel like drowning. Many will be surprised at how the relationship has survived and been cushioned by the relatives and the man’s boys.
5) They respect you.
We all know that a man’s boys will be good to you the same way they are good to his other girlfriends (assuming he is a player). But when that pretentious liking has a bit of liking, then it goes without saying that a woman is in good books. It means they respect you and think highly of you.