Unlike women whose desirability is determined primarily by looks, men need a whole lot more qualities to be considered desirable. Women will always scramble for the highest status male because the value of the man a woman ‘catches’ directly impacts her, and determines her own worth in society. For example, a politician’s wife is accorded a level of authority just for being the wife of an important man.
In the society we live in, status is king. The higher a man’s status, the more he can score with the ladies. A man who is very desirable to women is said to have a high sexual market value and vice versa. The following can help you increase your sexual market value as a man.
Fame and popularity transforms every ordinary looking guy into a sex god overnight. Case in point, our so-called Twitter bigwigs. Most of them are as ugly as sin and do not have a lot of money to burn, besides the little they have for Internet bundles.
However, women from all walks of life are tripping over each other to get to them. You do not need to throw a javelin like Yego or sing up a storm like the Sauti Sol boys. Do you write? Start a blog and make sure your presence is felt and you will be well on your way to getting a higher sexual market value.
A well-muscled physique will automatically make you more attractive to the opposite sex. The muscle man makes an ideal mate because he looks like he can handle himself in the bedroom. Women will approach and flirt with guys with bulging abs and then go home with them at the end of the night to seal the deal.
If your game iko down, and you have no hopes of ever becoming a Twitter bigwig or a famous blogger, you better familiarize yourself with cardio and weightlifting exercises. I guarantee you that your love life will improve tremendously. You do not even need to know how to talk to women. All you have to do is sit there and flex those muscles.
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The quickest way to increase your sexual market value is to date a beautiful woman, just one. Scoring a beautiful woman can be challenging for an average Joe, but once you do it, you will increase your market value. It will increase your status in the eyes of other men and women. Other women will be intrigued and your desirability will multiply.
Your arm candy will also increase your social status among other men. Since beautiful women are constantly bombarded with male attention, they can afford to be highly selective about the men they date, which usually results in beautiful women dating high-profile men. So if you manage to score one, women will think that you have an extraordinary quality which they will be curious to find out and just like that!
Wealth is a sign of power, security, comfort and even excitement and ladies are hardwired to look for men who can be excellent providers. They will pick an ugly rich guy over a handsome average guy any day.