How do i tell my friend i'm in love with her hubby

Laura, what makes you think there will not be another woman somewhere along the way? Control your feelings for the sake of that family that has trusted you with their child. Please move on and you will find true love where you don’t have to play second fiddle. {Mahmud Jofle}

It is normal to fall in love. Love him and respect the people you found in that marriage including his first wife. This will be difficult to many people including your students, fellow teacher and parents, but remember you have a right to love and to be loved just like any other person. {Ouma Ragumo – Sifuyo}

If you would find nothing wrong if your friend took your man, then go ahead. Look outside there and you will surely find a man to marry. Ask him to inform his wife about his intentions and you will not see him again. He is just a dishonest cheat! {Tasma Charles}

Laura, you can get another man who will make you his number one. Everybody (including that child) will lose all the respect they have for you when they discover what is going on. Being a second wife is not as easy as people think. {Joshua Obino}

If you truly love and care for that family as you say, then quit that relationship and let that family be. Marriage is hard to build and I believe you would not like such a thing to happen to you in future. {Jeff O Mbaka}

That woman will never accept you as her co-wife so forget about ever getting married to this man. End this relationship before you mess up the friendship; lose your job and dignity in the process. Wait for your own prince charming. {Ben Alwala}

That man is already married and you are actually acting like his side dish. Ask him to discuss it with his wife first then decide if you really want to go ahead with it. Remember this will greatly affect your relationship with his wife. {Calvin Queens}

What you are doing is wrong. Imagine if you were to fall in love with all the fathers of children under you or to be under you? Men will always promise you many things but will fulfill none of them. You are being taken for a ride. Look for a single man out there instead of breaking someone else’s marriage. You may not know how many other women he has promised to marry apart from you.                             {Onyango Outha, Jauduny}

Laura, if you really care for this couple as you claim, then you should have realised that what you are doing will one day break them up. End this and wait for the right man. It is not too late; actually, it is never too late to find the right man. {Elvis Ogola – Seku}