Evewoman : How to tell if you are really over your Ex

How to tell if you are really over your Ex

ExboyfriendBreaking up is never easy and learning to get over someone that you love is even harder. If you think that you aren't over your ex, you might want to take a look at the top 10 signs you are not over your ex completely. Remember, learning the signs you are not over your ex is the first step to admitting you aren't over him.

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You dwell on his every Facebook status

Do you constantly stalk his Facebook page just hoping for a status update about you? This is one of the first signs you are not over your ex. With all of the social media tools out there, it's easy to see where your ex has been and is headed. It's also easy to see what he is feeling, especially if he is the type to put it all over Facebook.

You're still sleeping with him

This happens sometimes, doesn't it? Why are you still having sex with your ex? This is one surefire sign that you aren't over him yet. You need to cut some ties, ladies, to let yourself heal.


You talk about him constantly

Are your girlfriends sick of hearing you talk about your ex? Do they constantly tell you that you need to stop dragging him into your conversations? This is definitely one of the signs you are not over your ex yet. You need to cut the talk about him and pick up some new topics.

You refuse to delete his number

It's hard to really get over an ex, but deleting their phone number out of your phone is the very first step. It may be hard, but it prevents you from speed dialing him every time you get nostalgic.

You still have pictures of you two up

Do you still have pictures all over your Facebook and all over your apartment of the two of you? This is absolutely one of the signs you are not over your ex, ladies. When you break up with someone, you shouldn't have pictures of them all over still. After all, why would you want those memories?

Every single thing reminds you of him

While it is normal for old places that you two went to together and old things that you used to do together to remind you of him and the relationship that you had, if everything in the world constantly reminds you of him, that's a problem.  It's also one of the classic signs you are not over your ex yet.

You compare every potential boyfriend to him

One of the worst things in the world that you can do with a current boyfriend or even a current date is compare him to your ex. Do you constantly find yourself doing that? That's a sign that you might not be completely over former love.

Seeing him still makes you weak in the knees

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What happens when you actually see your ex? Do you get the butterflies in your stomach? Does he make you relive every single memory that you had together? Does he make you weak in the knees? That's not a good sign, girls; it means you really aren't over him yet.

You keep going over what went wrong

You just can't let your relationship go and keep thinking about what went wrong. Was it something you did, were you not enough for him, what can you do to fix it? If you are always re-thinking everything that happened in your relationship, then it's a good sign you're not over your ex. Try to step back from it and think about all the reasons why you need to just be you and be without him. You broke up and now it's time to move on.

You're keeping track

Have you been counting the number of days, weeks, and months it's been since your break up? Keeping track of the amount of time it's been is not healthy and won't help you move on. Instead of dwelling on how long it's been since you've been together, look forward to the future and to a new relationship with someone better. Have you experienced any of these? Do you know of any more signs you are not over your ex to watch out for?

Source: AllWomensTalk

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