Dear Dr Pesa,
I am a husband in my mid-twenties, only been married about one and a half years. Everything is working fine and our marriage is truly blissful except, we cannot agree on finances. For instance, I want a joint account, but she doesn’t. My wife prefers to keep her money for herself and as the man, I am under pressure to provide. I don’t even know how much she earns but I suspect it’s more than I do. We only fight about money and I hate bringing it up. Please help.