What wives can learn from barmaids, house girls and children

Clearly, there must be something that the so-called 21st century wives can learn from barmaids, house girls and even children, in as far as handling men is concerned. One is left wondering, are married men under siege in Kenya? From wives who seemingly have absconded their responsibilities, to younger jobless women who are desperate to turn them into ‘sponsors’ and milk them dry of their hard-earned cash, there seem to be a conspiracy against married men.