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Are you in your mid 40s and recently divorced? Are you struggling with the prospect of dating again? Did you spend your heydays trapped in a drab marriage, which capped off in an ugly divorce and you are just dying to get your groove back?
If you answered “yes” to all these questions, you are the perfect candidate for cougarville!
A divorce can make you an emotional wreck.
I honestly can’t think of a better way to bolster your dwindling self-confidence and ignite the spark in your life than by hooking up with a sexually fired-up 20-year-old.
Our high society women are trouncing the stigma associated with romance between an older woman and a younger man, and are brazenly exploring the cougar territory.
It appears that the traditional, slightly older man and young woman relationships are proving to be too mainstream for them.
They have redefined the concept of a suitable mate by becoming romantically involved with men born outside their decade.
It is not uncommon to see a virile young man in his mid-20s cruising around arm in arm with a sophisticated woman who is well into her 40s.
These women are on the prowl for hot young studs and are unapologetic about it. Our young men in the universities are particularly susceptible to these unrelenting women. It is not the best kept secret that this is when men are at their sexual prime.
I guess the combination of intelligence and sexual prowess can be quite irresistible.
Don’t be fooled though.
These young hunks are not necessarily willing participants. The sexual liaisons are usually accompanied by a hefty monetary compensation. For a struggling university student, that might be too sweet a deal to pass over.
These unconventional relationships appeal mostly to recently divorced women. The reasons are varied. More often than not, the woman is looking to validate her youth.
I believe these relationships can be more than just a fling. They can’t all be sexually or financially motivated.
A young man can develop genuine feelings for an older woman. There is something about a woman who is experienced and exudes confidence that can make a man weak in the knees. All cougars know what they want, and they go after it aggressively.
Unfortunately, society’s blatant disdain for anything remotely unconventional has made it nearly impossible for these relationships to flourish.
A significant age gap will set tongues wagging in no time. If you ever decide to tread this path, you should brace yourself for some disapproving looks.
@RoxanneKenya
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