Why can’t Kenyan men declare they are in a relationship like women do

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A little virtual stalking revealed a glaring disparity in how couples express themselves online. It all started when I couldn’t quite figure out if the guy I was crushing on already had an object of affection.

I mean, there is only so much you can learn about a person by watching them from behind a tree. There was the practical option of approaching him but I didn’t want to be too obvious with the enquiry.