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7 tricks men use to date more than one lady without getting caught

Readers Lounge - By Janet Machuka | December 8th 2015 at 02:45:00 GMT +0300
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You can never understand why some men cheat. But to them, they do not count it as cheating since most of them know how to handle the situation. I mean handling two ladies in their lives is not a big deal to them.

“I find it such a cool idea having two ladies in my life. Once I am bored with one, I can always lean on the other,” he said as he boldly explained how he does it.

Of course he did not meet the two ladies at the same time. He had one before he could fall for the other one a year later. But question is how do they manage in this kind of relationship?

Saving them in their full names

First thing they ensure they do not forget is saving the two ladies in his phone in their full names. This will avoid any suspicion if any of the ladies go through their phones. Most times these kinds of men make sure they have deleted each and every conversation they have through texts. This always happens to avoid any scandal.

Calling them by one name

When they want to be romantic, they will call you ‘babe’, ‘hun’, 'dear' and not by their names. He continued to explain that there was a time he forgot and called one of the ladies with the name of the other. “She got furious but I explained to her it is because he just had a call from the other lady.”

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Why should you then have two ladies in your life while you claim you love them both and yet you are bringing confusion to your life?


I have been so busy with work. That’s why I have not called you.” Two, three or even four days! Where were you all those 96hours without a text or a call? If you really do know you have someone special in your life, why do you have to mute her?

Once you get to her you flatter her with words and little actions to calm her down or rather make her feel loved, wanted and cared for. Yet, you have been busy having a secret moment with the other lady.

He always claims he is broke

He will constantly tell either of the ladies when money issues come in that he is broke.

“I wish you said earlier, I would have sent you the cash before I use in the other unimportant things”

If her woman asks for cash after a weekend, he will claim he used all of it during the weekend. They try their best to evade money issues since it is expensive for them to fully take care of both ladies materialistically.

More use of words

They tend to use sweet words, more so love songs. They look for the most romantic and amorous songs to send to both of them. Then they will claim that’s how much they love you.

Being the fact that ladies listen too much to their guys and to some blank promises they make, they fall for their words.

Ladies, it is your turn to reign and tumble. Hear and listen a lot of the crap but be cautious. Be wise enough to make out when something unusual is going on in your love life.

She is my friend

Sometimes it will happen that either of the ladies makes a call to the guy in the presence of the other. It is either the guy will not pick the call or he will pick it but ask to call back later.

In other cases, the guy might pick the call, talk to the lady in a friendly manner and still claim she is just a friend. He might call her sweetheart but will try to defend himself that she has been a close friend to him for long.

“If you think she is my side chic, then why am l here with you?’ He might calm you with those words, but hello lady, be keen.

Constantly avoid publicity

In our era, most relationships have become too much of social media. Adding of photos of either partner for public view has become rampant. But men with more than one relationship try to avoid it as much as possible.

He will not like his photo to be added on Instagram, Facebook or as a WhatsApp profile by any of the ladies. This is because it might evoke suspicion.

Okay. You can continue to be undecided who to love but remember; love is not a confusion. Get one feel satisfied. Otherwise ladies, be careful. You might be blindly caring for another woman’s man.

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