Why you need to seduce your spouse

#SeduceYourSpouse

The thrill and quixotic buzz in your love life needs to be on escalation mode in your marriage. Yes the matrimonial bed needs to remain undefiled and I add, it needs to HOTT and SIZZLING!!!!! The minute it grows cold, chances are your marriage may actually plummet into winter. Yesterday we contrasted a chef and a cook and how your sex life should lean more on the chef preparing designer meals.

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#ROUTINE-Each time you recycle a movie, something in you becomes dull because you are now familiar with the scenes, story line and the cast. The same is true with intimacy-routine can cause ‘Romanticide’ to your marriage.

Ask any couple that has been able to keep the ‘grind’ alive and fresh for years and they will tell you that the number one thing that has to die is the same routine…you have your entire anatomy to explore and draw the colour of love. Don’t just concentrate on the ‘nature corner’ there is a whole ‘campus of flesh’ in the form of your spouse that could school you in ‘Romantidemics 101.’

You have either bought your house or you are paying a mortgage/rent for that entire house, why don’t you go out of your way and experiment by making good use of the money you willingly part with every other month. The pulse of your sex life is kept beating by your willingness to explore and experiment.

Soon you will discover some favorite spots that will ‘Romance-port’ the two of you to your lovely Utopia…a world created by the two of you in just that one TIGHT moment where you HIT the point of no return and nothing else matters…You need to get there, you have to do it!!

Guess what, when guests are there, the two of you can have your own coded language that nobody else can decipher. You can stand or sit in the exact spot where the two of you committed your ‘love crimes of guilt free sex’ and wink at him/her in a naughty way and the two can have an invisible ‘homeCOMING’ without anyone ever knowing or realizing what just happened….

#BeyondIDo