I have been living with a divorced man for eight years in a come-we-stay relationship. He claims to love and respect me a lot, though I sometimes don't feel it. My problem is that he flirts a lot with his female employees. I always hear them bragging how their boss has fallen head over heels in love with them. We have no children together and I am starting to feel wasted. Every time I threaten to leave he apologizes and promises to change.