Men only: Money can buy you women?

He not only owned the boat we were on, but a family villa on whose grounds he was throwing a party that evening

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: When my father would have turned 75 years old

He had no qualms throwing rounds of beer there at Birongo Square in Nairobi West; then coming home at 2am with a quarter of kilo of meat

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: You can't grin and bear it if you have a toothache

I was awoken by the most excruciating tooth pain. Outside, the world was still, in my head, all was thunder as my teeth got struck by lightning

By TONY MOCHAMA

Should I have waited so long to have a baby

We spend so much time planning, getting ready for the future, stressing over what hasn’t happened but life doesn’t always go according to plan

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Original hustler, the People Versus Larry Flynt

Some say they sold chicken on the roadside in childhood, but Larry Flynt, being a real hustler, was selling chang’aa at 10 years old in rural Kentucky

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: If you have a missus, but you trust your mistress

Mdosi suspects his missus is having a comfort affair with her ‘best friend,’ another loaded dude whom they grew up sharing fences with in Lavington

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Dining with a diplomat on a Sato night

Until we start learning and telling our own African stories, our History will always be a whitewash

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: What I learned from a doc about cervical cancer

If you notice genital warts on the groin area or surrounding skin of a potential bedmate, ladies, perhaps it is preferable to put off the action

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Losing my wing-man, the man from Martinique

He was there when I parted with my college chick after six years, having become different people from when we first met as poetic sweethearts

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: When your women out earn you, watch out

When you allow women to bear most of the financial burden in the relationship, sooner or later, for many of them, they may drop you like a hot potato

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: 21 pieces of advice I’d give to any 21-year-old

I’m looking back to the Year 2000 right till 2020, to come up with these crucial 21 lessons for young men

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Health is a privilege, please try and maintain it

If Santa walks by with gifts this Xmas, the one gift you may want to ask him to gift you and your family is a nice, all round insurance package

By TONY MOCHAMA