Men only: You can't grin and bear it if you have a toothache

I was awoken by the most excruciating tooth pain. Outside, the world was still, in my head, all was thunder as my teeth got struck by lightning

By TONY MOCHAMA

Should I have waited so long to have a baby

We spend so much time planning, getting ready for the future, stressing over what hasn’t happened but life doesn’t always go according to plan

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Original hustler, the People Versus Larry Flynt

Some say they sold chicken on the roadside in childhood, but Larry Flynt, being a real hustler, was selling chang’aa at 10 years old in rural Kentucky

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: If you have a missus, but you trust your mistress

Mdosi suspects his missus is having a comfort affair with her ‘best friend,’ another loaded dude whom they grew up sharing fences with in Lavington

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Dining with a diplomat on a Sato night

Until we start learning and telling our own African stories, our History will always be a whitewash

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: What I learned from a doc about cervical cancer

If you notice genital warts on the groin area or surrounding skin of a potential bedmate, ladies, perhaps it is preferable to put off the action

By TONY MOCHAMA

Men only: Losing my wing-man, the man from Martinique

He was there when I parted with my college chick after six years, having become different people from when we first met as poetic sweethearts

By TONY MOCHAMA