Eight texts to send after an amazing first date

An amazing first date is everyone’s dream. 

Having taken time to dress up and look nice and taking time off your busy schedule to meet someone for the first time hoping that they might be the one is quite something. Don’t you agree?

And if all went well and you enjoyed each other’s company and ended up making a connection, you end up feeling like it’s the best thing that has ever happened to you. 

You get home with butterflies in your tummy and you can’t stop thinking about how they looked into your eyes and held your hand and that warm fuzzy hug they gave you after your date-gasps for air.

But the issue comes when you don’t know what to text them because the last thing you would want to do is ruin everything. 

You don’t want to look too desperate and like you have fallen for them already and you also don’t want to sound like you didn’t enjoy the date.

Basically, this one message is what determines whether you will get a second date or that’s the last time you will be seeing them. You just want it to be right, not too cheesy and not too detached. You need the perfect balance.

I may not be a dating expert but here are a few tried and tested text ideas to send after an amazing first date. 

Ask them if they got home safely

This is such a nice way to show someone that you enjoyed their company and actually care about them. If you have ever been on a bad date you honestly never care if they made it home. Asking them if they got home safely is a cool way of starting up a conversation with them.

Tell them you enjoyed the night and thank them for the date

Appreciation is such a good way of making someone feel good. Showing them that you appreciated their time and enjoyed their company will make them want to meet up again if they also enjoyed the date.

Check up on them

You already know they enjoyed the date and they would like to see you more often so make that easier by checking up on them. This is such a genuine way of showing you care about someone without giving off hints that you have the biggest crush on them.

Send a cute text on how you rated the date

Tell them that you rated the date as an 8/10 don’t give it a 10/10 rating that will make you look desperate and like it’s the first time you are doing it. Giving it a high score is a way of starting a conversation or having them ask to meet you again to make it get to a 10/10. Get it?

Use the conversation you had as a subject to trigger the next date

If they mentioned something they wanted to try out and it’s possible to do it, ask them if they would like to try it out with you the next weekend. And ladies that’s how you get a second date.

Show interest in something they talked about that you haven’t experienced

You can tell them that you are about to watch the movie they were talking about or you just finished watching it and give your opinion. Make it sound as positive as it can even if you didn’t enjoy it or like it that much.

Flirt lightly

Tell them you are thinking about them. It doesn’t have to be too extreme, make it cute. You could tell them ‘I can’t stop thinking about your smile or eyes.’ Don’t get too sexual with the flirting and don’t do too much of it. Keep it light and simple.

Express your wish to see them again

Tell them you enjoyed the date and would like to meet them again. This is also a great way to know if they are into you. If you both enjoyed the date, they will definitely be excited to have the opportunity to meet you again.