I couldn't keep my trousers zipped, now I'm in a fix

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I am 34 and married with children but in serious trouble because I messed up with a 23-year-old girl and she is now pregnant. We became friends after I frequently gave her a lift to town then we had casual no-strings-attached sex on several occasions. She is now four months pregnant and she is asking me what to do and what to tell her parents. I have tried to talk to her but she isn’t listening. I don’t love her and I can’t imagine losing my family because of this young and irresponsible girl. I think some of our neighbours are already suspecting something from the way they make funny statements at me and so it may just be a matter of time before this comes out. I don’t know what to do... {Ochieng}

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