Hate on being miss independent

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Ive been termed thorny and stone age woman. Reason is Im 23 and have never tasted been in love or gotten webbed in some relationship. I know its 21st century but nobody have a right to judge me. Been single is and will never be a crime.

Each single day Im rattled for been single by society. I get blacklisted. Im called names. Im treated like a demon. Many people look down on me when they here this. My friends think Im abnormal. Those I meet think Im a liar, that Im too beautiful to be single. While Ive been single all my life and I wont allow social backlash to get the best of me. Im not getting coupled up yet to please anyone or fit in the society. Im a fierce woman who decided to be poles apart when I wrote down my own terms on when and how Ill want to get married. I know it sounds so wild but this is me, this is my life, Im not ashamed to be a strong, independent woman who stands and holds her own ground. I know exactly what I want in life and Ill never let anything sway my beliefs and despite all this social pressure to get hitched, Im still not ready to mingle.

Yes go ahead accuse me of been difficult. Yes label me of been a lesbian. Go on, say Im cologne by too much insecurities. That Im so scared of heartbreak, yes once I thought I was single for all those reasons. But looking deep inside of me, I found my treasure; I found I was a different piled up lady. I wasnt just another object of the world. I found out I was full of dreams and my capabilities couldnt be measured or leveled up to. That day I was thrilled, I jumped like a calf on that discovery. I was a new challenge to the world of men and a prickle to the current society. My heart would drum so loud when I spotted people getting all mixed up. All those time, they lamed on me and got lost in between.

Since then, I never allowed myself to get torn down because somebody, with a low IQ found time to bracket me in a list of insecure women and impose stupid reasons why I was still single. I know were living in a fast world, where society has created rules that limit women competence, prey on women dreams and beliefs and doom their well formatted principles. Maybe thats why I chose a different path, maybe thats why I rebelled on what a woman is supposed to be or do.

Ill prove the society wrong any time, any day. Ill never allow the society to define me, never. I reek of big dreams, I ride in high rated targets, Im a high standard lady, and there wont come a time, Ill drop my dreams or back the bags of my principles and follow what the society wants. Dont expect that from me. Dating is not bad. Having a man by somebodys side is not a sin but I dont need a man to prevail in life. I neither need a man to be happy. I know how to channel bliss in the streams of my life. Since I was a kid, I knew I wanted to be a successful journalist. I knew I wanted to be a reckonable writer. Each single day I work myself out. I look at the stars and I try to fit into the brightest. I fill myself with fairy tales and wash myself up with a life full of peace and happiness.

You riot that its a crime that in my age Im supposed to have so many experiences on love and relationships which I dont have and that if I ever get married Ill cheat on my husband. You claim that my cheating will be as a result of not having too much fun in my youth as I should. Some say Ill never get married cause by the time my mind formulates some normality, Ill be quite old and no one will want me for a wife. While, sorry to disappoint you. Ill tatter those beliefs you hold so dear anytime and any place, trust me on that. Im no reckless woman when it comes to facts and truths.

While youre busy pursuing motherhood at an early age, so wrinkled up taking care of a husband whos struggling financially and cant even afford to buy you a nice dress for church, Ill fast on my laptop and I can assure you, in few coming years, Ill be where I want to be. All my dreams will be little pieces of diamonds in my palms. Ill have a better home, my children will attend the best schools and Ill be happy with a husband who was honest enough with himself to focus on his future, my features and throw away the cheap price of a fast life.

For now you wont belief what Im saying, but turn around, research and youll find all those greats in the land, they had to sacrifice like Im doing to be where they are now. They were labeled with every ill word that you know, but they shifted grounds and propelled their wishes and desires in that rough air of society and attained their dreams.

 

 

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