• Make her feel desired – work on your “game” and approach her in a way that makes her feel special.
• Accept her as she is – women want an attractive partner who respects them.
• Be highly affectionate – don’t just focus on the erogenous zones, appreciate her whole body.
• Talk to her – don’t just assume she’s turned on, ask her if she’s enjoying it.
• Be explicitly erotic – women fantasize about losing control, but gain her trust and remember: context is everything.