Ego
Sometimes we ladies feel as if it’s the man’s responsibility
to check up on us every time. Well, this man has an ego, and when the same
energy is not being reciprocated, he prefers to take it elsewhere. What’s wrong
with checking up on him, initiating that conversation, or hitting him up at
work to check if he’s doing okay? If he’s ghosting you, maybe this is one of
the reasons, and that man doesn’t want to feel as if he’s forcing himself on
you.
Being dramatic
Do you sometimes feel like overreacting or creating a scene?
Well, you better take a chill pill cause your man has had enough! Maybe you saw
him talking to another shawty finer than you, or there’s this text from some
girl that you saw pop up from his phone and the drama queen in you got
elevated? You have to understand that he must interact with other women. He
doesn’t want drama, no man wants drama, and he expects you to show him that you
trust him. Go easy on him, approach him nicely, you know talk like two mature
adults who understand that it is normal to get jealous. If you don’t turn a new
leaf, then your man is ready to get a new woman.
Stress
He may be there for you when you’re having a rough time or
has always been your knight in shining armor, but he doesn’t want to stress you
up with his stress. He might want to share with you, but maybe you’ve
previously shown him that you don’t care or you showed less concern. What’s the
point of telling you? Some men distance themselves when they are stressed, so
give him a little space or time or better still show him that you care, and you
got him always.
Being Broke
Most ladies in this generation don’t want to be associated
with a broke guy and the few who do, only for a little while. This guy needs to
get his things together as opposed to telling you the truth or asking you for
help. I mean, who does that? He’d rather ghost you than tell you. If your man
is broke, why won’t you intervene?
No Vibe
You may have a pretty face and a figure that is out of this
world, but that guy needs to feel your vibe. Your conversations are probably
drier than most parts of the country, and you don’t know what he loves, or you
just don’t have common interests. There’s definitely a shawty out there who he
vibes with. Why stick around when there are greener pastures? Try today by
checking out who Bruno Fernandes is, and you’ll definitely get your man text
back within a fraction of a second.
Being Rude and Self Centered
Do you think the world revolves around you? No, Karen! He
also wants to feel included. I mean it’s two-way traffic. He doesn’t like the
way you’re rude to people, and he thinks you are mannerless. It could be that
one person who has stepped on your shoe that you bought at 10k or it’s that
‘chokoraa’ who’s calling you auntie at CBD borrowing a mere 10 bob and you just
hurl insults at them. He doesn’t want to be associated with negative vibes, so
you better work on that mouth and also think about him for a minute.
Cheating
Do you have a secret lover? Well, guess what, he knows your
dirty little secret! He won’t even bother confronting you, better continue
playing your little game because you have no game to play with him!
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He’s probably not as good at using a ‘mwakenya,’ so he reads
every day and night. He doesn’t want distractions; the least he could do is
make his parents proud with that pass. You better respect his decision and give
him space; I mean, with a snack like you around, he’ll definitely get
distracted. Maybe he also has this project and deadlines to meet, a week or two
won’t hurt!
He wants to break up
with you
Yes, honey, sometimes ghosting is a modest way of breaking
up with someone. My sincere condolences in advance. He just doesn’t know how to
break it to you, so you better figure out!
Bad Mood and Disagreements
He doesn’t want to say something that he’ll regret, so he
wants to keep his cool. Don’t provoke him; just give him time to cool off if
the relationship matters to you.
Well, it’s a wrap! While there are more reasons as to why
he’s not texting you back, these are the main reasons. There might be others,
but if this helps you rekindle your relationship, well and good, if it doesn’t
well, at least now you’re in the know.