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In the beginning of a relationship, everything is usually well, unending excitement, going on dates, spending hours in each other’s space and you seem not to get enough of each other.
However, with time as the relationship becomes riper, things become predictable and the passion starts to reduce. You therefore need to be pro-active and tackle boredom before it arises.
Here are signs that will help you recognise if the relationship is lifeless:
Spending most time together
If you stay together 24/7, it starts to get too boring. It is time you give yourselves a break and just find some fresh air.
Not having enough time for one another
Not meeting up and devoting time for bonding, intimacy and conversation can bring the relationship to a standstill.
Doing the same things the same way
Going for dates at the same places, only meeting at a certain day of the week, talking about the same things over and over again could be the cause of boredom in your relationship.
Too much sex
It is true that too much of something is poisonous. If all speak and think about when you meet is focused on the organs between your legs, definitely it is time you find something different to spark the relationship.
No Dates
If you do not go for dates anymore and whenever you meet, you always meet at Bae’s house and watch movies all weekend, try a different location or place.
Communication
Not expressing what you need when you need it. Always say what you feel about certain things in the relationship without fearing to be judged by your partner. It is the only way not to seek comfort in someone else.
No compromise
Not negotiating your needs and wants, not creating a win-win situation makes relationships less interesting.
Dishonesty
Infidelity and lies can bring the relationship enjoyment to a stop.
Not putting effort
When you stop impressing and pursuing relationship goals then boredom is obviously going to take the front seat. Do not enjoy the comfort zone for long.
