The year is 2017 and the biggest relationship concern is how fast a guy texts you back. I keep seeing these posts on social media about desirable traits of a perfect boyfriend. The one constant in all of them is, "He texts back fast," or, "He replies to texts immediately". The astonishing thing is that it is not love-struck teenage girls circulating them. It is grown ass women. Yes, the average millennial woman believes that a man's texting habits should be a determining factor in initiating relationships. Basically, an unanswered text message is the equivalent of an anxiety attack and spells trouble for a burgeoning relationship.