For Pete's sake, be the men our dads were

Just like kuku za grade, our generation has wanaume wa grade. These are the kind of men who succumb to the least of pressure unlike our forefathers who were immune to any kind of pressure. You forget to text them back because of your busy schedule and the next minute, they have gone nil by mouth for over a week! You end up trying to persuade them to talk to you as if they are children!