'I love my wife and have two children but I fancy my workmate'

I’ve found myself constantly thinking about one of my female work colleagues. I fancied her like crazy when we were in the office together

By MIRROR

'It's two years since his affair, but I can't move on from his betrayal'

He ended things with the other woman and neither of us has any contact with her. Things were OK at first. I was convinced I’d be able to forget

By MIRROR

Confessions: My new wife wants me to get rid of stuff I bought with my ex

Before my current wife, I had one with whom we had bought household items, now she doesn’t want to see any of these items

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

'I married again but I'm still in love with my teen sweetheart'

I ended up meeting someone else and marrying him, but my ex reconnected with me and it became clear I’d choose him over my hubby in a heartbeat

By MIRROR

Confessions: I got a scholarship to study abroad, should I leave my wife behind?

The scholarship does not cater for family and despite my appeal to be considered as such, it is still not possible

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

Seven things you can do for your relationship

Good, happy and healthy relationships bring out the best in all of us. With the right partner relationships blossom

By ESTHER MUCHENE

Confessions: My husband wants sex everyday and I can’t cope

He wants sex every day and when I complain or tell him I don’t feel like it, he starts acting up and quarreling me

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

'My husband insists I wear make-up every day as he doesn't find me sexy without it'

Her partner of 22 years said he wanted her to wear make-up every single day of the week

By MIRROR

Confessions: He got fired after a deal gone wrong, now he wants my help

He stays indoors and watches TV all day. He has been pushing me to take a loan of Sh500,000 to help him start a business

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

'I cheated at work and now husband wants me to quit job I love'

I had an affair with a work colleague when he started getting really heavy, wanting me to end my marriage to be with him

By MIRROR

Dr Esther Dindi: Why we started the group Thriving Couples

Dr Dindi, physician and fitness enthusiast turned relationships author, speaks about love and the inspiration behind the Facebook group

By CAROLINE NJOROGE

'I’m humiliated after hubby moved in with family friend after long-term affair'

He says he’s sorry about what he’s done to me and our seven-year-old daughter but his mind is made up

By MIRROR

Six things people do on their honeymoons

Honeymoons vary depending on your preferences as a couple as well as cultural considerations

By ESTHER MUCHENE

Confessions: My wife keeps chatting with ‘a Nigerian man’

Whenever I find something and ask her, she insists that they are just friends

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

'My husband having an affair was the best thing that happened to our marriage'

When Adaeze Chiwoko, 40, discovered her husband was cheating on her she kicked him out. But it turned out to be the making of their relationship

By MIRROR

Five must haves for a healthy relationship

It takes two mature and levelheaded people to make a relationship work because the truth is, marriage and relationships are hard

By ESTHER MUCHENE

Confessions: My family boycotts gatherings when I take my girlfriend home

I have been dating this woman for two years. She is 34 and a single mother of two girls. I love her and I am considering marrying her

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

Confessions: He rejected me because of my age, now he wants me to stay

I am 32 and, for five months, my six-year-old and I have been living with a man who is 31. He said I am too old for him and that my child is too big

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

Confessions: My wife left, took our kids and doesn’t want to see me

I was married for about eight years until last year. My wife and I had many fights and accused each other of infidelity

By HILDA BOKE MAHARE

Confessions: I’m upset my mistress is cheating on me with workmate

I don’t have any right to tell her what to do because I’m married, but I can’t help feeling betrayed and I don’t want her seeing anyone else

By MIRROR

'My fiancée wants to get a tattoo of her ex's name - right before our wedding'

His fiancée's ex-boyfriend passed away and when she told him what she'd planned in memory of him, he couldn't believe it

By MIRROR

‘My wife lets our daughter sleep in our bed at night, I sleep in the spare room’

At first it was just the occasional night when our daughter woke up and came in, but now it’s become pretty much every night

By MIRROR

You can now pursue your spouse for matrimonial property while still married, court declares

But court cannot divide matrimonial property until marriage is dissolved

By KAMAU MUTHONI

Five ways to build a better friendship with your spouse

Relationships usually thrive more when you’re friends to each other even before looking at the romantic side of the relationship

By ESTHER MUCHENE