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Men, an expensive dinner treat does not guarantee you sex

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My friend recently went on a romantic dinner date with a man she had just met. Much to her delight, the guy had no reservations about splurging on expensive wines, gourmet food and tantalizing desserts in a high end restaurant.

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Throughout the date, he was being courteous, thoughtful and considerate. She couldn't believe her luck. She had scooped a real gentleman!

As they say, if it is too good to be true, it probably is. This couldn't have been any truer in the case of my friend. Her joy was short-lived. The guy showed his true colors at the end of the date. Apparently, he had naturally assumed she would be going home with him for a post-date hookup and was taken aback when she politely declined.

He became livid with rage and launched into a tirade of insults directed at my friend. He did not mince his words about the money he had spent on her. He actually went to the extent of quoting the exact amount! He even had the audacity to ask her why she had accepted the date if she didn't intend to sleep with him.

This is the sad state of the world we live in. A vast majority of men are convinced that they are entitled to some physical action after spending money on a woman. The absurdity of it all is not lost on them.

I have heard men grumbling about how they got nothing in return after they splashed cash on a woman. This is a very sick mentality. The part that infuriates me most is that these sick men don't ask the woman beforehand.

Having sex is a big deal to a woman and should always be discussed in advance. Assuming a woman will give you some just because you bought her dinner is downright disrespectful! What kind of person do you think she is?

Why don't you save her the time and save yourself the money by just being upfront about it? Tell her, "I would like to treat you to a nice expensive dinner and in exchange, I want sex."

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That would make everything a whole lot of easier for everybody. They have a name for it by the way. It is called prostitution. While we are on the subject, you do know there are some women who specialize in that, right?

If so, wouldn't it be much simpler if you approached one of them instead of chancing it with a regular girl? Think about it. No hassles! You can skip the whole dinner part and dive right into what you are after. You won't have to endure the boring conversations; you won't be obligated to go out of your way to be courteous and kind. Heck, you won't even need to know her name!

A woman doesn't owe you anything if you spend money on her during a date. If you feel you need to get some physical action after spending your hard-earned money on a woman, seek the services of a 'professional.'

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